It remains to be seen whether Clare is really ready to take Spencer’s offer for a Java date. After the public learned of the split, a source told E! Only the news that Dale was the one who “broke off” and “completely devastated” his fiancĂ©e.

The insider added, “She wanted this relationship to work and hopes it can revive in the future.”

Clare, 39, is staying in her hometown of Sacramento with her mother and has not yet commented on the split.

For his part, Dale wrote on Instagram: “I wanted to [to] Share with you everything Clare and I decided to part ways. We appreciate the love and support we have received from so many people, but this is the healthiest choice for both of us at this point. “

In other words, it is currently unclear whether a Clare and Spencer romance could begin to brew.