Olivia Jade Giannulli has received a lot of criticism after her parents, Lori Loughlin and Mossimo Giannulliwere arrested for their part in the college admissions scandal. But the influencer has grown a little stronger and wiser from the experience.

On Friday March 26th, the 21-year-old star went to TikTok to share what she had learned over the past few years, including the important lesson that a “very inspiring woman” had taught her.

“We talked about being publicly embarrassed and I said, ‘Well, my situation is not even comparable, I’m not even going to start comparing it to yours,'” recalled Olivia. “And she looked at me and said, ‘Olivia, it doesn’t matter if I drown in 60 feet of water and you drown in 30, we’re both still drowning.'”

She continued, “I think about this quote every day because it is so true right now and such a big message to our world. I think we are all very quick to judge. I think we can all put people down very quickly . “