You know it’s a real heartbreak when even the other guys burst into tears.

On the bachelorette, star Katie Thurston just came to a devastating result: Connor B. can’t kiss. Or at least he can’t kiss her well enough to hold him to himself. He first won her heart with his cat costume and then accompanied her to a delightful double date Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartickbut apparently it just wasn’t in his kiss.

As Connor was preparing for the evening portion of their date, Katie arrived at his door in a hoodie and jeans, the No. 1 Bachelor Nation sign for “This is Over”. It was very sad to see her drop him, especially since he was so supportive, but the real havoc came when Connor left to say goodbye to the other men who are also with Katie. You actually cried!

While his romantic buddy Gregor wiped away a few tears Andreas S. actually sobbed, and nobody could imagine how a nice boy like Connor could ever be sent home like that. If Connor couldn’t even make it, what hope was there for the others?