The bachelorette lead Katie Thurston does her part in reminding fans that she is not trying to be someone she is not.

Katie shared a video on her Instagram story on Wednesday June 16, responding to some unsolicited messages she appears to have received from fans offering suggestions on how the star can change her hairstyle and wardrobe .

“Okay, I’ll create a new rule for myself,” said the 30-year-old reality TV personality. “Anyone who wants to write to me about my role, my fashion or lack of it, I’ll just block you.”

She enjoyed a hearty laugh before clarifying that the feedback she received wasn’t necessarily malicious, but it was still not appreciated.

“I mean, I know a lot of you don’t hate this,” admitted Katie. “They just give me friendly suggestions, but when you get them every day, it’s just like that, damn it.”

The highlight of Matt James‘On the final season of The Bachelor went on, “Look, I’m just like your simple damn girl who kind of turned out to be a Bachelorette. But you know, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: It’s It’s not about the wrapping paper, it’s the gift in it. And that’s me – a goddamn gift. So that [gestures to her appearance] does not matter.”